That Boy: CONVERSATION ABOUT HATE AND HEALING
2025
Film: 41min
Director: Toby Gorniak MBE and Michal P.Garapich
Production and Research Team (London Metropolitan University): Prof. Michał P. Garapich, Dr Anna Jochymek, Dr Rafał Soborski
This film is a result of the ESRC-funded research project “Everyday Transnationalism of the Far Right: An Interdisciplinary Study of Polish Immigrants’ Participation in Far-Right Groups in Britain”, led by Prof. Michał Garapich, with Dr Anna Jochymek and Dr Rafał Soborski from the research team at London Metropolitan University.
This film documents the encounter between Toby Gorniak MBE, a Roma activist, and refugee who fled Poland in early 1990s, after enduring violence from neo-Nazi skinheads and Mirek, a former neo-Nazi and football hooligan from Poland, now born-again Christian giving testimonies about his past and transformation. Their unfiltered conversation touches on the origins of hate, its consequences, and the possibilities for reconciliation.
While grounded in Toby’s story, the narrative also delves into Mirek’s transformation from a life of hate and violence to becoming an advocate against extremism. By offering his perspective, Mirek provides unique insights into the psychology of extremism and the potential for redemption. The film emphasises his dedication to educating others on the destructive impacts of hatred—not only on its victims but also on those who propagate it.
The encounter between former victim and oppressor probes the healing potential of restorative justice in cases of hate crimes and violent racism. Through raw storytelling and compelling testimonies, the film demonstrates how personal transformation and honest dialogue can become powerful tools for fostering understanding and challenging hatred.
This film is co-directed and filmed by New Vandal, a UK-based film production company.
Film concept: Michal P. Garapich
Executive producers: Toby Górniak MBE, Michal P. Garapich
Video Production: New Vandal Media
Academic supervision: Anna Jochymek, Rafal Soborski, Michal P. Garapich
Funding and academic support: Economic and Social Research Council, London Metropolitan University
Consultation: Fiyaz Mughal OBE, Faith Matters
The first screening of the film took place at the European Parliament in Brussels, as part of Roma Week, on 9 April 2025.